One other wrote, “I don’t assume persons are deeping the Bonnie Blue and GK Barry scenario sufficient. Her viewers is 13-20 yr previous ladies. Younger and impressionable. This isn’t the message younger ladies must be listening to.
Journalist Sophie Wilkinson famous, “After many years of ‘barely authorized’ being a porn class for grownup males to revenue off of and luxuriate in, Bonnie Blue – a lady – is now the goal for folks’s ire round exploiting ‘barely authorized’ youngsters. She is a cog in a far larger machine, and I simply wish to know who harm her.”
Blue has since spoken to Cosmopolitan UK in regards to the backlash. “I obtain backlash for sleeping with barely authorized 18-year-olds, however the important thing phrase in that sentence is ‘authorized,’” she stated. “Quite than touch upon my TikToks, folks ought to complain to the federal government to extend the age from 18 to 21, [as] I am solely complying with UK regulation.”
As for Blue’s feedback about sleeping with married males, she instructed Cosmopolitan, that she would not encourage dishonest, however “if [men’s] wives aren’t pleasuring them then they are going to go elsewhere and that’s a truth […] opinions harm after they’re near dwelling which is why I obtain quite a lot of hate [from women].”
And Blue elaborated on her stance when she spoke to scholar newspaper, The Tab, in regards to the Saving Grace backlash specifically, Blue reportedly stated, “Grace has a platform which permits folks to share their tales. This doesn’t imply she’s for or in opposition to intercourse work or glamourising it. Grace’s interviews are light-hearted, so asking troublesome questions isn’t her type nor the correct questions for her podcast.
“The rationale the podcast might be receiving hate is as a result of it has a feminine audience whereas mine is males. Ladies have much more time [and] due to this fact don’t have any drawback losing their time commenting hate and abusive feedback throughout social platforms. Ladies dislike the issues I’ve to say, however it’s as a result of it hits near dwelling for them.”
Many ladies on-line, notably on TikTok, have hit again that their “dislike” of Blue’s feedback are extra linked to their misogynistic nature and their worry that views like hers might spur extra males to consider which have a proper to demand intercourse from their companions and/or have a proper to cheat on them if these particular wants aren’t fulfilled.
The concern expressed by many is that each her views and behavior play into the dehumanisation of girls. The OF creator constantly makes use of derogatory language when referring girls, together with herself, and has been accused of decreasing the function of girls to the accountability of conserving males sexually happy. “After I ask [husbands] when the final time they acquired a full service [from their wife] was, they have not, however these companions nonetheless need the payments paying for,” Blue tells Grace throughout her podcast look. “You possibly can’t count on payments [paid] for those who’re not at the very least happening on them.”
“I do not know why some persons are so shocked after they’re companions cheat,” she provides, shifting the blame for his or her accomplice’s infidelity onto girls as she explains that, in response to her views, for those who’re not having intercourse along with your accomplice they usually cheat on you, “what do you count on?”