I’m rising out my shorter hair so that it’ll sit simply above the shoulder and am advised by my hair stylist that what I’m formally doing goes from a “bob” to a “lob”. For the previous two years I’ve swung between these two comically-named hair lengths and have had (clearly) each size in between and so I believed that I might share some experience on the matter: specifically, tips on how to develop your hair by that difficult center part. When it now not hugs the jaw and appears cool and uneven, however isn’t but lengthy sufficient or weighty sufficient to hold properly.
The Lord Farquaad Stage. The Triangular Period. When the hair seemingly solely desires to develop outwards fairly than downwards and will get an increasing number of wedge-like the longer it will get. It’s hair purgatory: you’re left ready round for an indefinite period of time, questioning what the hell you are able to do to cease your self from trying like a Brownie Chief from the eighties.
Right here’s what – and all credit score goes to my hair colourist and stylist Cassie* for these reducing suggestions:
1 – Maintain it trimmed. Don’t assume that by ignoring the lower because it’s rising out you’ll be able to pace up the method: it’ll simply look crappier for longer. I’ve discovered that it’s much more necessary to remain on prime of the lower, as a result of in that nowhere land that’s “between jaw and shoulder” any straggliness is a lot extra apparent. The hair ends are simply hanging there, as if on show. So preserve having it lower usually and:
2 – Ask for a number of the weight to be taken out of the again, when you have thick hair or plenty of effective hair. I’ve simply had the again sliced into (there’s no layering) to take out a number of the heft and I’ve discovered that my hair is sitting extra neatly and doesn’t billow out behind me just like the hair of a medieval lute participant.
3 – Additionally speak to your hairdresser about getting an A-line lower. That is when the hair is lower ever so barely longer on the entrance, steadily getting shorter as you get to the again. We’re speaking refined quantities of distinction right here, not the total Vidal Sassoon works – it simply appears to make the form look extra purposeful. Relatively than apologetic. It’s additionally rather more modern-looking – I get my shorter bobs lower A-line too, it’s a nifty little trick.
So by taking some weight out of the again and retaining the beautiful A-line lower that I’ve when it’s shorter, I really feel as if I principally handle to keep away from the dreaded Lord Farquaad triangle-head of doom. The one (large) boon with rising it, although, full-stop, is that it’s lastly lengthy sufficient to tie again and so if there’s ever a really unhealthy triangle-head day I can simply whack it right into a (nonetheless very puny and little or no) bun.
In reality that’s actually the explanation I’m rising it again out to the shoulder, or simply above it; a lot as I like the messy bob for its immediate coolness and talent to only look nice with little or no styling concerned, I actually miss having the ability to scrape it again right into a bun or ponytail.
Exhibit C (the bun):
Let’s all take a guess at how lengthy it’ll be earlier than I get bored with at all times pulling it again right into a ponytail and need to chop all of it off once more…
By the best way, there’s completely nothing mistaken in any respect with having any hair size between jaw and shoulder – my hair stylist really likes the size I’ve now greater than she’s favored every other lower she’s performed – it’s only a in style hair “hazard space” as a result of it’s the size the place lots of people come unstuck. They begin to develop out shorter hair however don’t have it re-cut and re-shaped as they go and – nicely – we’ve mentioned what occurs. Medieval lute gamers unite.
*I’ve my hair lower and colored at The Suite in Tub and have performed for years. I’m a completely paying buyer and go to Cassie or Mathilde, yow will discover their web site right here.